From someone who truly got it right - Gloria Naylor
“Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.”
With some friends, as much as it pains you, you are willing to wait patiently as they go through what they must go through, knowing that when the time comes, they will reach out to you to help them recover. With other friends, you will be silent, you will watch them go through their journey but instead of being there for them on the other side, you disconnect from their trials and tribulations and eventually from them. Either option is your choice. But what ever you decide, do so with the knowledge that the friendship's future will be determined by how you weather the storm.
Have a sharp day!
~Maliek~
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